Financial independence. It’s the ultimate goal in personal finance. But is it all it’s cracked up to be? Though financial independence is clearly better than financial dependence, many people race toward it without thinking through the possible consequences. As a result, they can end up creating a lifestyle that prioritizes money over everything and leads to increased stress. This hasty pursuit of financial independence is not just unnecessary, but sometimes counterproductive. I’ve seen people do this and I used to be like this as well. In my early 20s, I skipped out on some dinners with friends, passed on a few weekend trips, and avoided things that didn’t move me closer to my financial goal. I cut costs mercilessly, believing that once I got to a certain point, everything else would fall into place. Historically, this is why I was a huge fan of financial independence. But as I’ve gotten closer to reaching that goal, I’ve realized that rushing to hit an arbitrary number may not be the right approach for most people. So let’s examine why financial independence is overrated and discuss a better (and easier) alternative to reaching your financial goals. Financial Independence vs. Financial Freedom When people talk about financial independence and financial freedom, they tend to use these terms interchangeably. I’ve done this in the past as well. However, Jamila Souffrant, personal finance educator and host of the Journey to Launch podcast, changed my thinking on this. As she laid out in her great book Your Journey to Financial Freedom: Financial Independence (FI) is when you reach a level where the income generated from your investments and assets can pay for your lifestyle expenses without your needing to work. Financial Freedom means your ability to have options and security with your money. You can experience financial freedom without being financially independent. This subtle difference highlights how you can be financially free even if you still have to work to earn money. Being financially free doesn’t mean that you are free to do anything, but you do have choices around what you do with your money and how you earn it. For these reasons, I believe that financial freedom is the goal that most people should strive for, not financial independence. Of course, financial independence itself is not the problem, but prioritizing it over everything else can be. I’ve seen many examples of people who raced to reach financial independence quickly, only to regret it later. One Redditor in his early 40s shared how his rush to reach financial independence left him feeling empty: Yes we are financially way ahead of most folks our age which is really nice, but at the same time that purpose of paying off debt and building passive income has really left a void. Another Redditor spent years chasing FI, only to quit suddenly after realizing the toll it had taken on their social life: On another level, I realize now after 3 years of missing out on friends and family that
Image Source: Pexels DINKs often have a financial advantage early in life. With two incomes and fewer expenses, they may enjoy more disposable income, travel more, and live in trendier neighborhoods. But despite this head start, some DINK couples end up struggling in retirement. Although it may be surprising, just because you are a DINK couple doesn’t mean that you are financially prudent. Here are six reasons why some DINKs still retire broke. 1. Lifestyle […]
I came across this article from The Globe and Mail the other day. The article profiled Jeremy Finney who retired five years ago at age 41. Soon 46, he is dealing with regrets about early … Read more
We’re continuing our series on the Top Seven Retirement Activities—the key habits and routines that make for a fun, meaningful, and well-rounded life after work. So far, we’ve covered: #1: Exercise and Staying Healthy #2: Building and Maintaining Strong Social Connections If you missed either of those, be sure to go back and check them out—they lay the foundation for everything that follows. Now, it’s time to dive into the third essential activity. This one […]
On Friday, it had been a year since I left my full-time job behind and officially kicked off my latest chapter. In today’s Sunday Spark, I reflect on highlights of the past year. In addition to reinventing retirement, this week’s edition looks at fog harvesting, the case for bike lanes, and fun facts about jigsaw puzzles. The post The Sunday Spark – Reinventing retirement … a year later appeared first on Boomer Eco Crusader.
Financial independence Sucks! So, I said it. It sucks. It makes your life needlessly complicated. It pretty much creates more problems than is solves. Okay, first world problems, but problems nonetheless. Freedom It starts out so nicely, enough money to live life and do your thing. No job needed. Time for you…. but that is when it starts! What is that “thing”. You suddenly don’t have to think about needing to go to work. It’s great that you can forget what non-work atire should look like. But it’s easy to start developing an identity crisis. What shall I do, what can I do, what should I do? Is there anything I need to do? Life suddenly get’s really hard! Especially for someone in the second half of his/her life who doesn’t know what he/she wants to do when they grow up. Financial Independence Sucks! – Enter Keuzestress “Keuzestress” “Keuzestress” or freely translated “the difficulty to make a decision due to many available options”. That is what FI is, too many choices. Shall I Iive here, or on the other side of the world. Shall I work for fun, or shall I become a volunteer, or both or nothing at all?! Is my calling maybe to become en entrepeneur. But if it is, what shall I do? Or shall I start my own (small) farm and be self-sustaining? About that, what shall I do for lunch today? Shall I go out, or make something at home. Sooo many choices to make, all day long, every day! It’s overwhelming, so much kezestress. Or shall I solve the whole FI problem and buy a boat? Gosh, don’t you hate first world problems? Hope to see you all on Sunday in Leiderdorp, so we can discuss these first world problems! The post Financial Independence Sucks! appeared first on Cheesy Finance.
The retirement account landscape seems like a mish mash of acronyms – 401(k), IRA, HSA, etc. If you’re new to this, as I was when I first started working, it can be overwhelming. Fortunately, there is an order of operations when it comes to saving for retirement. And it’s an order that works for everyone, regardless of your income or status. You may not have access to every type of account on the list but that won’t change the order, you’ll just skip a step. As long as you follow this order of contributions, you’ll be in good shape. Here it is: Contribute to a 401(k) up to the company match Contribute to a Traditional or Roth IRA to the annual limits Contribute to a Health Savings Account Contribute to a 401(k) up to the annual limit Contribute to a SEP-IRA Contribute to a taxable brokerage account Remember, you may not have access to each account (or you may have a different type), but if you follow this order you will be in shape. Table of Contents1. 401(k) up to match2. Traditional or Roth IRA3. Health Savings Account4. Maximize your 401(k)5. SEP-IRA6. Taxable Brokerage Account 1. 401(k) up to match 2025 annual contribution limit: $23,500 Many employers offer a retirement account match to incentivize you to save towards retirement. These are defined contribution plans and the most common is a 401(k) and 403(b), which is for non-profits and educational institutions. You will want to contribute as much as you can up to the match. My first employer, Northrop Grumman, offered a 50% match on the first 6% of contributions. This meant that by contributing 6% of my salary, Northrop Grumman kicked in an additional 3%. Be sure to review the vesting period if you intend to change jobs. A vesting period is how long you have to wait before the employer match is yours to keep. Your contributions are always yours to keep. 2. Traditional or Roth IRA 📝 The IRS defines an IRA as an Individual Retirement Arrangement but everyone calls it an Individual Retirement Account, which is what I’ll be doing throughout this article. It’s a difference without a distinction. 2025 annual contribution limit: $7,000 2025 catch-up contribution for ages 50+: $1,000 After the 401(k) and the free money, you will want to contribute to an Individual Retirement Account (IRA). It comes in two flavors: Traditional IRA – Contributions are tax deductible and the account grows tax free but you are taxed when you withdraw funds in retirement. Roth IRA – Contributions are not tax deductible (after tax) and the account grows tax free and you are not taxed when you withdraw funds in retirement. Each type has an annual limit, which is shared, and there are also contribution limits based on your income. You will have to determine which is best for you but the Roth IRA is a very attractive account because it grows tax free and
Peter Attia is a doctor, scientist, author, and all-around health advocate. His “Centenarian Decathlon“ is a framework that asks: “What 10 physical tasks do I want to be able to do at age 100?” Lofty stuff! From there, Attia works backward, identifying the strength, mobility, and endurance needed today to meet those goals in the future. This “decathlon” reframes fitness as preparation for longevity and independence, not aesthetics or performance. The idea is simple: train today for the functional life you want decades later. Can we do the same thing for retirement? What are the 10 most important aspects of a financially sound retirement, and how do we start preparing for that future today? The 10 Items In My Retiree Decathlon What matters in retirement? It’s crucial to focus on family, lifestyle, purpose, and all the other “soft” aspects of retirement. Episode 106 of my podcast focuses heavily on this side of retirement. In fact, most post-retirees realize that the “soft” stuff is more important than the financial “nuts and bolts.” Nevertheless, I want to focus on finances for this retiree decathlon. I want this to be about the 10 “nuts and bolts” tasks we should start today and work on throughout retirement. So let’s stretch those financial hamstrings and get fit! 1) Understand Your Future “Paycheck” Your cash inflow during your career is easy to understand. It’s (mostly) your paycheck. Simple. But, obviously, there’s a significant change in retirement. No more paycheck. All pre-retirees should understand where their future “retirement paycheck” will come from. Some people assume it’s 100% from Social Security, and others assume it’ll come 100% from their 401(k) savings. The truth is (usually) more nuanced. Your retirement paycheck will likely have multiple sources. It will change over time. It will be unique to you. It should be optimized for lifestyle, long-term sustainability, tax minimization, etc. Even if you’re years away from pulling the retirement trigger, it’s not too early to consider where your retirement paycheck will come from. (PS – this free downloadable dives into more detail) 2) Allocate and Build Your Portfolio “Save more.” Yep, that’s fine advice. But it behooves all of us to dig deeper. How much should we save? How do we allocate those dollars into different asset classes (stocks, bonds, etc.), and why? What assumptions should we make for future returns on investment? How will our allocations and growth assumptions change over time? (more in Step #7, below) Your portfolio will be a significant part of your retirement life. It might be the only part of your retirement paycheck for a few years if you plan on retiring early. 3) Understand Your Social Security Strategy On its face, you must decide when and how to claim Social Security for maximum lifetime benefit. But, yes, it’s more nuanced than that. I suggest asking questions like: What’s your family
It’s common to hear about an impending “retirement crisis” due to the modest levels of savings that most people have as they move into old age. And indeed, per the Federal Reserve’s SCF (Survey of Consumer Finances) data, the median person age 65-75 has $200,000 in savings (as of 2022, anyway). In other words, using the 3-5% retirement spending rates that people often discuss, the median retiree is looking at retirement income that could be […]
Hey everyone! It’s been 2 months since Mrs. RB40 retired from her career. Unfortunately, she is having a tough transition into early retirement. This is a typical experience for many early retirees. Most people don’t like changes, and retirement is a big one. Today, I bring you the view from the front row of the spousal early retirement show. Loss of identity The biggest problem with early retirement is the loss of identity. One day, you’re an expert in your field. The next day, you’re a nobody lounging around in your PJs at home. It’s a big loss, and you need to adapt. Mrs. RB40 liked her job and didn’t really want to retire. She left because of a significant change in her organization. She felt useful and fulfilled at work. Now, she is rudderless. Unfortunately, her retirement was somewhat sudden, and she didn’t have a chance to prepare for the loss of her professional identity. When I retired from my engineering career, I had a couple of things lined up. This blog and a baby were waiting for me. I embraced my new role as a SAHD/blogger and never looked back. On the other hand, Mrs. RB40 didn’t have a chance to prepare, and the loss of identity is hitting her hard. Keeping busy I shared the secret to a happy retirement a while ago. You have to keep busy. If you have too much idle time, you’ll get bored and depressed. Now, I see that’s not the whole story. Staying busy isn’t enough. Mrs. RB40 has been very busy since she retired. She spent a ton of time in the garden, caught up on her hobbies, went to RB40Jr’s events, cooked, cleaned, rearranged the furniture, and more. However, I don’t think these are meaningful enough for her. IMO, she is busy, but she isn’t fulfilled. She probably needs to find a big purposeful project to dive into. Financial fears Mrs. RB40 is a frugal person, but she occasionally enjoys spending money. When she was working, she felt good about buying a new purse or going out to eat. Now that she doesn’t earn income, she feels guilty about spending on nonessential goods and services. It’s a big psychological change from making money to spending down your savings. That’s probably why I’m still trying to make money with this blog and delivery side hustle. My earned income is inconsequential, aka beer money. Well, I don’t drink beer anymore, but I just spent $65 on a LEGO set. My ceramic class also costs about $150/month. I can use my side hustle income on fun stuff, and I don’t feel guilty about it. This year, we also have some big bills coming up. We’re remodeling our kitchen, and RB40Jr’s Cochlear Implant surgery bill is hanging over our head. (We are appealing the insurance denial, but it doesn’t look good.) Mrs. RB40 is stressed out about these big expenses. I don’t think it’ll be a huge issue because we have
Yes, it’s time to announce the big one. It’s time for Utrecht on Fire – 2025 Edition! We (Ms Hoefnix and us) found and booked a venue on the western side of Utrecht (an old farm buidling) that can accomodate a large group of FIRE enthausiasts. We hope you want to join us too. For more details, please see below. When? Saturday November 15th, 2025 doors open at 12:30, program starts at 13:00. How Much? The ticket price is €20. This includes admission, fee for Eventbrite, drinks, snacks and a good time. In short, a steal of a deal! Utrecht on FIRE – 2025 Edition What to bring? Yourself (and partner, friend, family member, etc.) in good spirits, an open mind, desire to talk money, investing, life and FIRE. What? Albeit not all details and program content is decided yet (still looking for subjects and presentors), a rough outline is as follows: 12:30 – 13:00: Doors open 13:00 – 13:30: General Session & Introduction 13:30 – 17:15: Presentations, discussions and two breaks. 17:15 – 19:30: Drinks, Snacks & Chats! 19:30 – 20:00: Final drinks and clean-up (we have to be out by 20:00) Utrecht on FIRE – 2025 Edition Stuff to know Important stuff to know: The presentations and discussion sessions are in Dutch only! Location details are in registration link below. No lunch or dinner included in the registration fee. No admission at the door, online registration only. We will be discussing the program and are looking for a few more volunteers (to help with discussion sessions, presentations and help during the day) during the upcoming meetup in Leiderdorp on June 29th. If you are interested, please join or shoot us an email. The content of the day will be chose such that it includes something interesting for everyone, from beginner to retiree. Maximum number of participants is 90! Full = Full. No refunds. Registration? You can register for this already epic event here: Utrecht on FIRE – 2025 Edition Hope to see you on the 29th of June and/or the 15th of November! The post Utrecht on FIRE – 2025 Edition appeared first on Cheesy Finance.
When markets feel shaky or inflation dominates the headlines, it’s natural to start wondering whether you should branch out from the usual stocks and bonds. That’s when the term “uncorrelated assets” starts popping up. These are investments that tend to move independently from stocks and bonds, offering potential diversification benefits. But when it comes to retirement planning, is uncorrelated always better? Let’s take a closer look at two commonly discussed uncorrelated asset classes: natural resources […]
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