I’m working on a new budget with the thought of being cash only. It’s really a new mindset. And a bit scary. You can see my 2025 budget here.) Thanks to Financial Peace University, a quieter living situation, and a life season that looks nothing like it did ten, even 2 years ago, my budget is requiring a complete overhaul and a lot of thought! This isn’t a “bigger goals, tighter rules” budget. This is a protect my nervous system budget. What “Budgeting for Peace” Actually Means for Me Peace isn’t vague. It’s specific. It’s practical. And it’s exactly how I am living right now. Here’s what peace looks like in my 2026 budget. 1. Fewer Categories, Fewer Decisions If I have to negotiate with myself every time I spend money, the budget is broken. So peace looks like: simplified categories predictable spending fewer “maybe” line items I’m tired. I don’t want to argue with my budget or the BAD community. I want it to support me and make financial decision making easier/cleaner. 2. Margin for My Actual Life (Not an Imaginary One) My living situation is quieter. Slower. More home-based. More caretaking. More hermit, less hustle. So my budget includes: convenience where it preserves energy, that means, yes, I am paying for Walmart+ so I can get ALL my groceries delivered room for the unexpected I’m not budgeting like I’m running marathons when I’m clearly walking the trail right now. 3. Clear Boundaries Around Emotional Spending Quiet seasons can be sneaky. And I’m certainly not immune to those “I just need to go buy something” moments. So my budget now assumes: emotions will show up loneliness may try to swipe my card stress might whisper “just buy it” Peace looks like pausing, naming the feeling, and choosing something that doesn’t show up on a statement. This is SO HUGE for me. (Today it meant getting off DoorDash and heating up some of last night’s casserole.) 4. A Real Plan for Irregular Income & Expenses Peace looks like: sinking funds boring consistency and not acting shocked when life does what life always does This alone lowers my stress more than any inspirational quote ever could. 5. Money That Supports My Values, Not My Ego My budget reflects what matters now: stability faith stewardship rest and the freedom to say no I don’t need my money to tell a story to others. I need it to make my life quieter. I realize that the BAD community doesn’t agree with my recent decision to tithe again. But it is important to me. What This Budget Is Not It’s not extreme. It’s not flashy. It’s not optimized for admiration. It’s optimized for sleep. The 2026 Goal (Spoiler: It’s Not a Number) The goal isn’t a perfect spreadsheet or a dramatic payoff date. (Ok, maybe it is still a payoff date!) The goal is: fewer financial surprises fewer internal arguments fewer stress

If you’ve ever Googled “how to budget”, you’ll know there’s no shortage of money advice out there. Everyone has the system. The one that’ll magically fix your finances without you having to think too hard or change your behavior (spoiler: that one does not exist). Over the years, I’ve tried just about every popular budgeting … Read more

Meal Trains are such a wonderful way to lend a helping hand to friends or family members having a difficult time. But what do you do when you want to help but feel limited by budget restraints? I reached out to some of my blogging friends and gathered 27 budget-friendly meal train ideas. WhetherKeep Reading 27+ Budget-Friendly Meal Train Ideas was originally published on WhatMommyDoes.com

One of the ways to save money is to buy in bulk, as purchasing multiples of an item when it’s on sale is one way to lower your expenses over time. It’s obvious right? If you have a coupon, or if you have the chance to buy more than one of something at a discount now, your per-unit cost will be lower. Yet, even though buying in bulk can save you money over time, it’s […]

Just over six months ago, I wrote a post about an interesting parenting tactic for helping teach teens how to budget. At the time I wrote about it in a generic “what an interesting concept” type of way, but also thought my kids were still too young for that. Smash cut to today. I allowed my kids to get on Facebook when they entered 8th grade, and they’ve been sending me Facebook reels about this exact same concept. If you haven’t read that previous post, the idea is basically this: you figure out how much you typically spend on your child, average it out per month, give it to them, and let them learn to budget and spend it wisely. So I already had this in the back of my head. As in, yes, I think this is a good idea (or some modified version). And then – TRAGEDY STRUCK (a bit euphemistic here). As my teens were getting ready for school, one of my girls RIPPED HER JEANS and was left in a puddle of tears crying, “I HAVE NOTHING TO WEAR!” This was very frustrating for me, given that her drawers are overflowing with clothes, including SEVEN different pairs of jeans. Am I the only one who has found that sometimes I’ll take my kids clothing shopping, they find something they love…and then they never wear its home? Just me? I can’t think of much I hate more than realizing my kid has outgrown something that is still BRAND NEW WITH TAGS ON! So with all these thoughts swirling in my mind I decided it’s time. I’m giving the girls their own budget. In my prior Teaching Teens to Budget blog post, the idea was to give kids money for everything kid-related (e.g., sports registration fees, entertainment and fun, school events and extra-curriculars). But that felt like too much too soon. And, honestly, none of those things are the real problem. Our problem is classic teen girl stuff: makeup and clothes. Image source: Ron Lach/Pexels Here’s my plan: KIDS BUY: Clothing & Accessories 100% of all clothes, including: Shirts, tops Pants, jeans, shorts, skirts, bottoms Bras & panties & socks Tennis shoes, dress shoes, flip flops, boots, sandals, crocs Any accessories, including belts, jewelry, hair bows, scrunchies, etc. Pajamas/sleepwear Swimsuits and cover ups Jackets, hoodies, sweaters Hats & sunglasses Purses/bags/wallets Costume or special outfits (e.g., spirit week, themed days, holiday, school dance) Makeup & Skincare 100% of all makeup and skincare, including any associated items primer, setting spray, makeup, clips or thing to pull hair back, etc. Face or lip masks Makeup remover wipes Acne patches Makeup brushes or sponges Nail polish, remover, files, etc. Toiletries Fancy shampoos and conditioners Hair masks Hair dye and related items Fancy hand soap, lotion, or body wash Styling products (gel, mousse, curl cream, heat protectant) Dry shampoo perfume/body spray Fancy lotions Bath bombs, bubble bath MOM BUYS Clothing & Accessories NONE

Heading to college is an exciting journey filled with new experiences and opportunities. However, it also means managing your finances, often for the first time. There is no better place to learn how to balance your spending than when you are young. For many students, college is when they learn how to stretch a dollar and make the most of their budget. Living frugally in college doesn’t just help you avoid debt; it also teaches […]

Most retirement income plans don’t fail because the math was wrong. They failed because the plan depended on assumptions that no longer felt reliable once retirement began. While this may be the norm, a more durable approach to retirement income planning is to shift away from assumption-based projections and instead think in terms of a balance sheet, evaluating your assets and liabilities. Viewed this way, retirement planning is less about forecasting returns and more about […]

January is coming to an end soon. You know what that means! It’s time to get your budget ready for the new month. The post FIVE POTENTIAL FEBRUARY EXPENSES NOT TO FORGET IN YOUR BUDGET appeared first on a life on a dime.

Personal retirement income planning is challenging precisely because there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Many retirees quickly discover this after receiving confident but conflicting advice from different sources, each presenting a different “best” answer. Two retirees with identical balances, the same age, and similar goals may still need very different plans. That reality makes retirement planning deeply personal, but it also makes it harder to tell when a recommendation truly fits you versus when it simply […]